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While it might seem daunting to talk to your recent sex partners and tell them that you've been diagnosed with an STD, it's important to let them know as soon as possible so they can get treatment, too. If these are people you have regular sexual relationships with, it can be even more important to discuss this because if one partner is untreated, many STDs can be back and forth indefinitely.

Remember, syphilis, gonorrhea, and chlamydia are treatable STDs, where antibiotics work. However, if left untreated, syphillis can do extensive damage to your organs and neurological system. Gonorrhea and Chlamydia infections can spread to other parts of your body. Talking to your partners about your diagnosis will not only reduce the stigma associated with getting an STD, but will help take care of the health of you, your sex partners and the entire community.

You have to come to terms with your own diagnosis before you start talking to your partners. It's unrealistic to expect other people to understand if you're uncomfortable with the diagnosis yourself. How well informed are you? Do you know the facts about STDs? You want to feel confident and knowledgeable before you explain the infection to someone else. You can always call the CDC National STD Hotline with questions 24 Hours a day, 7 days a week at 1-800-342-2437. In addition to talking to you personally, they can mail you brochures and information to have on hand to give to your partners.